Surround yourself with uplifting friends and show yourself some love.

Gemini is the one zodiac sign that has the most varied traits amongst all. Represented by the symbolic twins, Gemini natives represent two different personalities in one, and so, they react differently to different situations. They might be fun loving, social, and adaptable at one time, while being serious, aloof, and thoughtful in another moment. They love life and believe in living in the present and enjoying it to the fullest. Since they do not let the negative things affect them much, it makes them powerful and believe that whatever bad has happened in the past, was destined to be, and that they should not be worrying about it anymore.

A Gemini with a Heartbreak

Since a Gemini native loves to live in the present, they do not let break-ups of a heartbreak bring them down. Being really good communicators, a Gemini always makes his/her thoughts heard, thereby leaving very little scope for miscommunication. They have the skills to push away the feelings of a weak heart and can shove their sadness into the deepest corner of their heart, and keep up a strong face and not look weak. They understand the power they have and so try to use it when they have a heartbreak. They do not like to sulk or get emotional repeatedly, and try their best to find ways to clear up the mess in their heads. So, if a Gemini has had a breakup, he/she would not sit and sulk or get all teary, but would be ready to deal with it, fight off the emotions and sadness in their hearts, to start afresh and move on!

Since we are now aware that being a Gemini, you are already looking for ways to curb your mental stress and emotional turmoil, we are more than happy to help you come out of this situation, all bright and energized! Check out the ideas below that we have enlisted for you, and gear up to kick that depressingmemory out of your life, as you give yourself a hundred reasons to live a fulfilling life!

• Get out of your Home and Party like a Pro

Being the social person you are, nothing could cheer you up more than a night out at your favorite disco or pub in town! Gather your friends and maybe throw them a break-up party. Why should only patch-ups have all the fun, right? Seeing things from a brighter side, a break-up opens up a lot of avenues and lets you drink your cup of freedom again. Maybe he/she who left was not your destiny at all, and you have someone else much better and stunning coming along your way. You just need to keep your senses open and in plain sight. Be it a house party or a clubhouse, or the neighborhood joint, you will surely enjoy and have a blast as long as you have your friends who always uplift you for company, and drink, food, and music to make you groove. So hit the party, and keep your game on!

• Get back on the dating game

Even after being a Gemini, and having the guts needed to get back on the dating horse, it might still be a far-fetched idea to be able to get back the confidence of driving the dating game after having your heart broken. Whatever it may be, what you need to do now, is to give a deaf ear to your instincts and ignore them for your own good. If experience holds validity, then it is a known fact that the one thing that can let give a quick, and in fact healthy adjustment to heartbreak, is finding a new partner for yourself. With today’s new age technology providing us support in the date-game as well, you can try out the dating apps or even give your crush a signal to overcome your heartache. There is nothing wrong in doing something that pleases you and the respective other, and going for a date or even flirting around, will boost your self-confidence and also make you realize that there is not just who has been abandoned. Ever tried finding light in irony>Here’s how. In fact, your so-called rebound might fall in love with you, and might even prove to be a better partner than your ex was! Luck can come around in the weirdest of times, you see.

• Chill your mind with soothing games and dining-in

Owing to your diverse personality, you might not want to go party or might think that the time has not come yet for starting to date again. This kind of ‘you’ needs pampering, and lots of time to understand and cope up with the heartbreak. Though you might not be spending a lot of your nights crying your heart out, we believe you would like to do things that make you feel better and happy. Watching a new movie or your favorite Netflix series, while gobbling on popcorn and ice-cream, might let you forget about the one who mercilessly broke your heart. And if you have someone for company, the better. You are a foodie at heart, and ordering from your favorite dinner from your choice of Asian/Italian/Indian restaurant, might satiate your taste buds, and refresh your mood.

• Pour out your heart to a Counsellor/Confidante

A Gemini is stronger than most others, but like we all know, love is a strong emotion that can weaken the strongest and the boldest. While having to deal with a painful break-up, a Gemini would wish that they had not taken it as seriously in life. In times as this, they might use their own wit to share their heartache with a trusted person who could help them cope up well, and fast. Talking to a confidante like a counsellor, or a psychologist, might help them get over their break-up trauma, and make them clear their minds off all the mess. This would also be how a Gemini tries to get out of pain, and move on to start believing in lifeagain without wasting much time. Trying to find answers to their problems is one trait that a Gemini should be thankful of in times like these; when the heart is not in the right place. Their quick wit and eagerness to ‘live’ life lets them come to solutions faster than most others in the league.